Relationships
How to Netflix and Chill (Even If He Isn’t Your Boyfriend Yet!)
1. Picking the Perfect Movie
First things first, the movie choice is key. Opt for a romantic comedy or a feel-good movie that’s light-hearted and fun. Think of films where friends unexpectedly fall in love – it subtly sets the mood. ‘When Harry Met Sally’ or ‘Friends with Benefits’ are classics that never disappoint. They’re not only entertaining but might also spark some ideas about taking friendships to the next level.
2. Setting the Mood
Lighting is everything. Turn off those harsh overhead lights and opt for soft, ambient lighting. Candles are perfect for this – they create a cozy and slightly romantic atmosphere without being too obvious. Plus, the gentle flicker of candlelight is super flattering for everyone!
3. Comfort is Key
Make sure your lounging area is extra comfy. Fluffy pillows and a soft blanket not only add to the cozy factor but also invite some innocent shoulder-to-shoulder contact. It’s all about creating a space that feels safe and inviting. Make sure he know’s he’s welcome under the blanket!
4. Dress to Impress… Comfortably
Your outfit should be a mix of comfy and cute. A smooth satin top is not only stylish but also irresistibly touchable. Pair it with some comfy leggings. You want to feel good and look good, in a way that says ‘I didn’t try too hard, but I still look amazing.’ You want to be irresistible!
5. Snack Time
Forget the popcorn; let’s get creative. Think finger foods that are easy to share – like chocolate-covered strawberries, mini sandwiches, or a cheese platter. It’s all about snacks that you can both reach for, breaking that physical barrier in a subtle way.
6. Choose the Perfect Perfume
A little bit of perfume goes a long way. Choose a scent that’s not overpowering but leaves a memorable impression. Again, you want to send a message of romance, flirtation and availability – so choose a scent that’s sensual and enticing. Definitely not your mom’s perfume!
7. Taste Fresh!
Keep mints or gum handy. Fresh breath is a must, especially since you’re hoping for a make-out sesh.
8. Digital Detox
Put those phones away. The last thing you want on a cozy movie night is constant pings and distractions. Being present is not only polite but also lets him know that he has your full attention.
9. Just Chill
Last but not least, relax and enjoy the moment and what unfolds. The best connections happen when you’re not trying too hard. Let the night unfold naturally, and who knows, your friendly movie night might just be the beginning of something more.
Now, what if the romance isn’t kicking off as you hoped? Sometimes, the guy might not pick up on all the subtle cues (he IS a guy, after all). Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with some fail-safe moves to make your intentions clearer without being too forward. Try one, two or even all of these ideas!
➡️The Classic Yawn and Stretch
It might sound cliché, but the old yawn and stretch technique is a classic for a reason. It’s a playful way to casually initiate a bit more physical contact. As you stretch your arms out, it creates an opportunity for an inviting, cozy hug or to simply bring yourself a little closer to him.
➡️Sharing is Caring
If you’re munching on those chocolate-covered strawberries, save the last one and playfully ask if he wants to share it. It’s a sweet and intimate gesture that also breaks the touch barrier. Sharing food is not only romantic but also a sign of comfort and closeness.
➡️Lower the Lights
Feel free to suggest making the room a bit darker. Ask him if he’s okay with you blowing out some candles to set a more intimate mood. It subtly changes the atmosphere, making it more conducive to romance without being too obvious about your intentions.
➡️The Shoulder Massage Gambit
Feeling a bit bold? Here’s a slightly more forward, yet still tasteful move. Mention casually that your shoulder feels sore from the way you’ve been sitting. Then, with a playful smile, ask if he wouldn’t mind giving it a quick rub. It’s a smooth way to invite a little more physical contact and can be incredibly relaxing. Plus, it’s a great opportunity for him to show his caring side – and for you to get a sense of his massage skills!
So there you have it! Armed with these tips, you’re all set for a successful Netflix and Chill session. Just remember, no matter what happens, the most important thing is to enjoy the experience and the company. Happy chilling!